Christmas
has come early in our home; we're sending out cards already. The reason for the
premature posting is to include change-of-address stickers which will ensure
that we won’t have to go to our old place to retrieve cards sent by people who
don’t know we have moved. The stickers also mitigate the 'humbug' factor to
which I am prone: it pleases me to be able to tack a practical function onto a
customary activity of questionable validity (why would I
celebrate the birth of the son of god when I don’t believe a word of it?). Despite
that, I can't deny the indelible mark left on my psyche by years of traditional,
family Christmases. Shared cultural history, after all, is what binds society and
fulfils our need to belong.
The
multitude of artificial, blood-red poppies spilling out of the Tower of London
into the surrounding moat has been criticised as being too "pretty" to
be a fitting memorial to those who died in war, yet its popular appeal is
evident and may help to perpetuate the memory of those who died. On Remembrance
Sunday I was present for part of a ceremony held outside our Town Hall. Not
close enough to see or hear the homage, it was the sound of a canon fired to
mark the start of the silence which really caught my attention. Canon-fire is
something which troops must get used to but, for civilians like me, it is exceptional
and dramatic. The sound exerted its authority: all stood still with heads bowed
(except for a few tourists who had strayed un-knowingly into the scene). The
occasion served me up an emotional bond with the fate of those - especially
family - who died in service but it also reminded me how fortunate are the men
of my own generation who were never required to put ourselves in that position.
Two days
later, on Armistice Day, I was caught off-guard in Marks and Spencer's socks
department having forgotten that the eleventh hour of the eleventh day of the
eleventh month is earmarked for remembrance also. On this occasion there was no
canon-shot: instead a 'ding-dong' followed by an announcement. The voice on the
loudspeakers was not that of a grand establishment figure but of an
ordinary-sounding female employee. It could have sounded mundane, but in the
voice was such unaffected sincerity that its effect was as powerful as any
canon-shot. The lights dimmed and all those around me stopped to observe the
silence - with less ceremony but no less a sense of solemnity than had pervaded
Sunday's event. Afterwards I heard someone complain that some
"foreigners" had not observed the silence and that "they should
observe our customs". But was this fair?
The previous
day I had gone with a friend to Lancaster where there is a newly erected
memorial to the African slaves shipped as part of its trade (before the River
Lune silted up it used to be an important dock). We also took a walk around nearby
Sunderland Point, a low-lying finger of land which extends between the Irish Sea
and the estuary. The word "sunderland" means a place where people and
merchandise can leave or enter a country and, sure enough, this is what it once
was. Nowadays it's just an isolated, wind-swept place with a handful of houses
and the remains of a wharf, but it is remarkable for one thing: here, on a
patch of unconsecrated ground by the shoreline, is the grave of one of those
slaves. They called him Sambo but who knows if that was his real name? His grave
is modest but its symbolism is potent: he is just one of the many who suffer a
lonely death a long way from home, family, friends and the culture to which
they belong.
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